Ask for Help

You can’t do this by yourself.

I get it. Asking for help, especially in this hyper-individualistic society, is a dangerous proposition. Some people want to help, but don’t know how. Some people want to help, but don’t think they’re qualified. Some people don’t want to help. Some people are too busy to help. Buuuuut, I promise you still gonna need help and there is a way to do it that’ll make it safer and easier.

1. Identify what you need help with, specifically, and what possible outcomes you are hoping for.

   Before you can ask for help, you have to identify what you need help with (and you might be thinking “nothing” but you’re probably wrong.

2. Identify the right person to ask

3. Identify how to ask

4. Then ask